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Jerald “Jay” Sugarman, Jr.

Jerald Jay Sugarman

Jerald Karl Sugarman, Jr., of Brushton, New York passed away on November 7, 2020.

Jerald “Jay” Karl Sugarman, Jr., fondly referred to by all as Jay, was born on February 1, 1983 to Jerald Karl Sugarman, Sr. and Karen Walker Sugarman in Staten Island, New York.  He was a proud graduate of St. Peter’s Boys High School and Pennsylvania State University.  He spent his working years in the shipping industry before becoming a proud small business owner.  He was a passionate sports fan – Yankees, Giants and Penn State games were a particular source of happiness for him – and he enjoyed watching them with his family and friends.  He would give you the shirt off of his back, no matter the weather.  He was quick with a joke- with an infectious laugh and smile that would light up the room.  He improved the lives of everyone he touched, no matter how brief their interaction.  He loved his family fiercely, most especially his three children who were the light of his life and also his beloved mother, who is the bedrock of the Sugarman Family.  He was an avid traveler, loved to experience the cultures (and foods) of the world, loved to cook and always looked forward to his next adventure in life.  This world is a dimmer place without his light but thankfully heaven is that much brighter now.

Jay is survived by his beloved mother Karen Walker Sugarman and her longtime companion, Walter Maher; his adored children, Lucy Grace Sugarman, Clara Elise Sugarman and Jack Robert Sugarman; his wife, Emily Genser Sugarman; his brother Matthew York Sugarman; his sister-in-law Jacqueline Leahy Sugarman; his niece Nicolette Marie Sugarman; his nephew Nathaniel York Sugarman; and countless beloved aunts, uncles and cousins. 

He was predeceased by his beloved father and namesake, Jerald Karl Sugarman, Sr.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Jay’s name to an organization that is important to you and that improved the world we live in- as he would want his memory to shine broadly and brightly.

From Cherubini Mcinerney’s family to yours, here is a memorial tribute of Jay.

https://www.tributeslides.com/tributes/show/8ZPLBZMNWPPGTFWT

Service

Jerald “Jay” Sugarman, Jr. - Viewing

Cherubini McInerney Funeral Home

1289 Forest Avenue, Staten Island, New York 10302

Friday, November 13, 2020

4:00pm - 8:00pm

Jerald “Jay” Sugarman, Jr. - Mass

Blessed Sacrament R.C. Church

Forest Ave, Staten Island, NY 10310

Saturday, November 14, 2020

10:00am

Jerald “Jay” Sugarman, Jr. - Private Cremation

Condolence Messages

  1. Elizabeth McLean says

    Oh Karen . We are so very sorry for Jay’s passing. All 4 of us Mothers were part of the Fab four’s life since grade school. The four of them , Mike Olsen, Mike Pignotti, Jay, Brian McLean were all like sons to us . We are praying for You, Emily , and his 3 beautiful children .
    Beth and Chip McLean

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  2. Jennifer says

    I am going to miss Jay’s adorable sideways smile and his unbelievably quick wit. He had a very big heart and an incredible ability to make each of his friends and family members feel special to him. Because they were. Rest in peace, cousin.

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  5. Nancy Zak Torkas says

    Dear Karen,
    My heartfelt condolences are sent to you in this trying time for you. I hope your good memories of him sustain you and your faith carry you forward.
    Nancy Torkas

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  7. Carolyn Raab says

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. My heart breaks for you. There are no words to lessen your pain. My prayers are with you and the kids.

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  8. Verna Alas says

    Dear Emily

    May the good Lord comfort you , your children and family in this difficult time.
    My sincere sympathy to all his love ones.
    May he rest in peace .

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  9. Brie Coger says

    Jay,

    I am so fortunate to have known you and to have shared a laugh or three. The world is truly dimmer today without you.

    To Jay’s family,

    I wish you comfort in this fragile time.

    All my love,
    Brianne Pineiro Coger

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  11. Sherri Ehrlich says

    It is with a heavy heart that I extend My deepest condolences for my dearest cousin Jay’s entire family. I will keep him in my heart always.

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  12. Jon Fertakis says

    I can’t imagine how much Jay’s passing must be weighing on you, his family. Jay was my boss at Vanguard Logistics Services for a number of years but it never felt like it – he was a partner in what I was doing, and a friend and confidant and cheerleader, exhorting me to be the best I could be while he carried the group on his shoulders through many difficult changes, and much of the time from many miles away. Even then he had my back and many others. You will be greatly missed, brother! God please bless Emily and the kids and everyone else who is hurting right now for Jay’s presence.

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  13. Lindsey McCann says

    It was with heavy hearts we learned of the passing of our beloved friend Jay. He really would do anything for another. He would walk you home if you needed, work the door at a party, tell incredible stories, and love totally unconditionally. Those Sugarman boys were quite the pair and our deepest condolences go to his family and beautiful children. You are indescribably missed Jay, by every person you ever encountered with that huge loving heart, of which there are so many. May you be at peace. We think of you only with gratitude, love, and laughter.

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  14. Kristin fanelli says

    I am so deeply sorry for your loss… please id you need anything please let me know.. I will be praying for you and your family.. RIP COUSIN..

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  16. Alex & Amy Cook says

    Our hearts are broken. We loved Jay and have had many adventures with him over the years.

    We will miss him, his laugh, his good heart and the world is a little worse off for him not being in it.

    The memories of the good times we had will light up our lives for years to come.

    Our thoughts are with Emily, Lucy, Clara & Jack.

    Love to all.

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  17. Mary Rooks says

    Oh Emily,
    I am so heartsick for you and your children. I remember meeting Jay during your pregnancy. He had the biggest smile and lit up a room with his infectious happiness. May he Rest In Peace.

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  18. Ana Cepeda says

    Jay was a great friend who somehow always made me laugh with his silly jokes. We worked together for many years and just became good friends. I still remember his wedding day and how happy and excited he was to start a family. He loved ❤ them dearly.
    Just last week we were exploring new business opportunities and looking ahead into the future. His passing has been devasted and heartbreaking to everyone who knew him, especially his friends at Vanguard Logistics.
    I will always cherish the good memories.
    Rest in piece my good friend. Until we meet again. 💔

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  19. Karen Hazen says

    So very sorry for your loss. He was a great father who was so proud of his family. Was always smiling when he came to visit us at diner. He will be missed.

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  20. Karen & Armin Laszlo says

    Jay Sugarman. Sweet, funny, kind. What a great person. A young man of great character and dedication. Our love to him and his family. May he rest in peace. Love, Karen and Armin

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  22. Robin Ehrlich says

    I’m deeply saddened by Jays loss. He was a great man, son, cousin and father. He was a loving spirit who we will miss. My heart goes out to everyone who loved him. His spirit of kindness, joy and laughter will be remembered forever.

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  23. Ashley & Dustin Quig says

    Jay, we are so saddened to hear of your passing. We will forever honor you and your presence will live on. God Bless you and your family.

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  24. Mary & John Olsen says

    Karen, we are so deeply saddened at the news of Jay’s passing. Jay has been a very special part of our family for so many years. We send our heartfelt condolences to you and your family and we remember Jay in our hearts and prayers. ❤️

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  25. Cathy carney says

    Emily,
    We only knew Jay-through your eyes but the love you had for him and your kids was so evident. You were amazing parents who had the most loving marriage and you had such love and respect for one another . Remember always your world and relationship together. A unified , loving unbreakable bond . God bless you and your sweet children through this terrible terrible time . ❤️❤️

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  26. Elena Melfa says

    Emily, I am so sad for you and your girls. Jay’s loss is heartbreaking and devastating and I will be praying for you for the strength you need.

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  27. Mike Napolitano says

    Jay was one of the greatest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of calling my friend. Always joking or smiling or laughing. Always there to help me when I needed him. I remember going on vacation (I think it was summer 2009 or 2010?) and all he kept talking about was Emily this and Emily that. I said “Who is this Emily? She must be special”. We became dads around the same time and it was very fun for us to track the progress together on that little app every week. Man, Jay loved Emily and the kids. I enjoyed Jay texting me pics of Lucy, Clara, and Jack because they were always from odd angles, close ups, etc. Funny pics. You could tell he was having fun taking them. We had so many little inside jokes and one-liners. I’ll have them all ready for when I get to see Jay again one day. I’m glad I was blessed to know Jay in this life and I will miss him deeply.

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  28. Carlene Wynter says

    Karen,
    We are heartbroken by the loss of Jay! He had such a happy, caring spirit, especially towards Andrew and Adrienne, was a best friend to Michael, and enjoyed Mark’s cooking! We will always remember him fondly. We pray for the comfort of you, Emily, Jay’s beautiful children, and your families. May you all have peace.
    Carlene and Mark Wynter & family.

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  29. Teresa Matthews says

    I am so shocked still as I was hoping to meet up with Jay soon next year when he was able to come out to visit his brother in SO CAL and was looking forward to catching up.
    Jay and I worked together for many years at Vanguard and during the almost 2 years very closely when he was working here and even after he left us to go back to NJ – I am just devastated.
    Jay brought light to everyone and laughter – he had that little boy grin that made you grin too because you could not help yourself.
    Jay, I will miss you my friend and see you again some day.
    Take care, lots of Love, T

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  30. Andi Senter says

    May his light and love surround his family during this time of loss. We remember him through his loving cousin Megan and have made a donation to a local organization in his name. With love and sending peace, Matt and Andi Senter

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  31. Jim McGrath says

    I was very sorry and shocked to hear about Jay’s passing. I enjoyed so much working with him at Vanguard. When he was in California, we would spend a lot of time together discussing business, family, God. He was a smart man and grew considerably during our time together. Although neither of us were at Vanguard any longer, he reached out to me about a month ago to catch up. A real pleasure hearing from him. I am so sorry for the family to lose a father at such a young age. My sincere condolences. A loss for us all.

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  33. Leigh-Shannon DeLuca says

    The world as we know it, will never be as full & as funny as it were- and his loss will be fully felt forever.
    I’ve cried every single day since he’s departed & will always have a hole in my heart where he fit.

    Sending sympathy, support & smiles to anyone who reads this & everyone who loved him, too.

    He was & will always be one of the best friends i was lucky enough to make.

    Miss you terribly brother💔 You’re an angel now

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  34. Delia Scheie says

    Emily, I am so very sorry for your loss. You & Jay & your three children seemed like a wonderful happy family. Please know that you are not alone. You are a strong women and with God’s help you will make it through. You & your children will be in my prayers.

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  35. Bill McMullen says

    Emily, Karen and family:
    Your husband and son was truly an amazing, loving man. I so enjoyed working and spending time with Jay. I saw in him passion for whatever he undertook at work only surpassed by the love and passion he had for his children, and family. The world has lost a little luster, yet the heavens I’ve noticed shine brighter, and now I know why. I loved this man, our conversations, our lunches together and our mutual appreciation for college football, cooking and life in general. May you take solace in knowing the many lives Jay touched through a kind word or smile.
    Always “Living the Dream”

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  36. Shannon Van Geffen says

    Jay was such a wonderful man and great father. I will always remember him as a funny, sweet guy who loved his family so very much. Much love to Emily, Lucy, Clara, Jack, Karen, and Walt.

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  37. Donna Couts says

    Emily and family,

    I was sadden to hear of Jay’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your three beautiful children. Please know that Jay will always be there for all of you. Hold your memories close and your children closer.

    Donna Couts

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  38. Joshua J. Couts says

    I am very sad to hear of the passing of my friend Jay. He was a very nice person and always made me laugh. I will always have fond memories of him and all of his family and friends have my deepest sympathy. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten.

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  39. Helen Modzelewski says

    I am very sad to hear of Jay’s passing. I knew him as a friend at Vanguard Logistics Services for many years. He was very outgoing, friendly, kind and ready to help or give advice. He had a great sense of humor and loved to make you smile. Someone so special can never be forgotten. Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. My love, hugs and prayers to Karen, Emily and his dear children and family. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
    🙏🧡

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  40. Spagnuolo Family says

    Our sincerest sympathy to you Karen, and the Sugarman family! I know how much you all loved him! Hoping the wonderful memories you’ve shared will ease the pain somewhat at this difficult time of your lives. Love and prayers to you all! My condolences to you also Walt.

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  41. Cindy Harper-Baxter says

    Emily i have to say this news of Jay’s passing was heartbreaking. As we only had few conversations and brief moments together I can honestly agree with so many others…he was unique in personality!
    There was NO question in the JOY his children brought him, and for sure the joy they recieved from him!
    May the good Lord watch over your family…comfort you all and give you peace.
    Healing hugs…Cindy

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  42. Margie Goddard says

    To Jay’s Family: Mother, Brother, Wife and Children;
    And to all of Jay’s many friends whose lives Jay touched,

    Jay was the one who would give you an encouraging word, an answer to a problem, a quick grin, a line from a Neil Young song – a bright spot in your day at Vanguard. You could “hear” his smile over the phone. The pride and love of his family shone through his postings and correspondence.

    I am so sorry to learn of Jay’s passing, an unfathomable loss. My thoughts will be with you through the coming days.

    Peace

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  43. Juliann Walsh says

    I am at a loss for words. I’m very saddened to hear of Jay’s passing.
    I had the pleasure of having Jay as my supervisor, manager at Vanguard Logistics, a mentor and best of all, a friend. You will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. All my love.

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  44. Martin Shenman says

    Such sad, sad news. Although I hardly knew Jay (he’s my late second-cousin Jerry’s son), it’s obvious — from the outpouring of tributes — that he was a man of outstanding character, wit and love for family and friends … taken in the prime of life. I have loved seeing the photos he has posted on Facebook of his beautiful, adorable children. May your family’s cherished memories be a source of comfort, and may his children grow to know the love he felt for them.

    Karen, my heart goes out to you more than I can express. There is no greater heartache than the loss of one’s child. 💔

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  45. Akil St Louis says

    My everlasting condolences to the Sugarman family at this sad time. Jay was a good person and even better friend, constantly asking about others well being. I appreciated his time on every occasion, whether it’s about talking about life or football. Last time I saw Jay was when myself invited him to a Giants event he came and we had a great time. And he was really appreciative. I will always remember his time with us. May Jay Rest In Peace.

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  46. Iosue says

    Dear Karen and Matt: sincere sympathy at thiis sudden loss of your beloved Jay. It is shocking that three little ones lost their dad. To lose your son so young is heartbreaking.

    Maureen and Nick Iosue

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  47. Lisa Calabrese Dunne says

    To the family of Jay.
    I cannot imagine the loss and emptiness you are feeling. Jay would visit Brian McLean at the University of Delaware and we became quick friends. He truly lit up the whole room and had us laughing upon his arrival. I will never forget his willingness to listen, his love for his friends and family, and his zest for life. I am so saddened, but know Jay must be smiling as he rejoices with his father. I’ll think of Jay when I see his teams playing football and I will pray for his family and beautiful children. I am sure they will grow up knowing what a stand up guy their father was. Rest in Paradise, Jay. Prayers to all who know and loved him. <3

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  48. Samantha Kelen says

    Jay. You were my best good friend. I will always honor your memory and your truth. You were the kindest soul and the brightest light, and I know you’re shining down on all of us. Until we meet again.

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  49. Paula Kupselaitis says

    My sincere and heartfelt sympathy to the Sugarman family on the sudden and devastating loss of Jay. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

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  50. Heidi La Porta says

    Dear Emily ,
    I am truly sorry for your loss. May God help through this difficult time. We will be praying for you and all of your family.
    Heidi Poirier -la Porta

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  51. Heidi La Porta says

    Dear Emily ,
    I am truly sorry for your loss. May God help through this difficult time. We will be praying for you and all of your family.

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  52. June Flynn says

    Dearest Karen,
    We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers, along with your entire family. May your son Jay rest in peace. Please stay well yourself. With our deepest of sympathy, June & Steve Flynn

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